your lover and his / her ex?...

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by season (the invisible soul) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 13:18:31

hi. i wondering if you know your lover and his / her ex, are still contact one another no matter on the net, or have personally keep in touch, and your lover keep telling you that they just as close as a friend, but you know that the ex still have such feeling on your lover, what you will feel? do you mind that they keep in touch? whenever your lover, know that his / her ex is here, they want to make it to talk to the ex, would you mind?

Post 2 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 13:30:05

I think it can be difficult knowing someone else has feelings for your partner. however I think it comes down to trust, and whether or not you have reason to believe those feelings are in any way recipricated. I think it does make things more difficult if that other person is an ex, but in reality, the only thing you can do is to trust your partner when he/she tells you that he/she feels nothing for the ex, and that he/she is with you.

Post 3 by Witchcraft (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 14:35:41

I think as long as you trust your partner there should be nothing wrong with it. I'm still in contact with a few of my exes, and my husband isn't jealous because he trusts me...He isn't in contact with any of his exes, but that is his choice. If he were it wouldn't bother me; even if I knew they had feelings for him, because I trust him absolutely.

Post 4 by season (the invisible soul) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 15:04:25

hmm. true, the word is trust. how about if the ex still telling others that he / she is her / his gf / bf? and now, the ex, and you are friends, and for those who know whats happening, they might thought that, this is a three party love. can you stand something like that?

Post 5 by Witchcraft (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 15:14:27

First of all if the ex is telling things that are not true, then, they're not a friend to either of us. Secondly, what people want to think they're going to think no matter what is said or done....So, why bother worrying about it?

Post 6 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Wednesday, 27-Apr-2005 17:33:40

i trust my partner, and know that she would never be unfaithful to me.

Post 7 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 28-Apr-2005 12:13:02

She would have to be completely mad to keep in touch with such an insecure loser,I mean really have a heart,

Post 8 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 28-Apr-2005 12:41:56

I have bumped into my ex, while Ardeth and I were wandering around town, but I have absolutely no interest in resuming that relationship...

Post 9 by Siriusly Severus (The ESTJ 1w9 3w4 6w7 The Taskmaste) on Friday, 26-Jun-2009 2:09:39

As long this is not an excuse to cheat on me.